Advice: Two Weddings, Two Sets of Gifts?

One groom-to-be asks what to do if you've already been married once before, but not "gay-married." Is it taboo to ask friends for wedding gifts again?

Multiple wedding gifts needless

DEAR MISS MANNERS: How many wedding gifts do you give?

One wedding gift will suffice

Dear Miss Manners: How many wedding gifts do you give? One for the engagement, one for each shower and one for the wedding. Is this correct? Gentle Reader: The answer Miss Manners will give you is not what you would hear from most engaged couples or those who aid and abet them.

Don't pay the marriage tax by giving multiple gifts

DEAR MISS MANNERS: How many wedding gifts do you give?

Miss Manners: Multiple gifts not marriage requirement - Mon, 23 Jan 2012 PST

DEAR MISS MANNERS: How many wedding gifts do you give?